4 Role Play Ideas for a Kinky Holiday Season
The holiday season doesn’t just have to be about the money you spend and the gifts under the tree. It can also be about the quality time spent with people you care about, including (and especially!) your partner. If you’re looking for a new way to get sexy this holiday season, why not use Christmas-themed role-play to explore mutual kinks.
From bondage to power exchange, there’s a way to give your kinky fun a holiday twist. Here are a few ideas to get you started!
Decorate the Christmas Tree
Since this is a kinky moment, we don’t mean actually decorate a tree. This could be a great time to practice some of your bondage skills on a willing partner. Treat them like the tree and “decorate” them with all kinds of sexy, kinky things, You might use rope in holiday colors (red and green or gold, blue and white, etc) or bondage tape to wrap around them. Maybe you grab some actual tinsel to drape over their body. Put on nipple or labia clamps as “decoration.” You could even hang ornaments from the clamp chains.
There’s a lot of kink going on here. The “tree” needs to stand still. They may endure some discomfort or pain (only consensually, though!). You both get to enjoy some level of bondage as you add “lights” or other decorations. Be careful if you decide to use actual lights. Avoid plugging them in and turning them as they may grow warm and burn the skin.
Bad Santa
Did Santa get caught sneaking down the chimney? Or is he naughty because he didn’t bring any actual gifts, only coal? Turn this role play game into dominance and submission fun. Tell Santa what a bad, bad boy he is. “Punish” him for bad behavior. Make him earn his cookies. However you want to play this game, go for it!
Some ideas might include spanking Santa or tying him up with lights or ribbon. You could put him in a corner or role play ignoring him in favor of his elves…or Mrs. Claus. Whatever hits on your mutual kinks that fit with the holiday theme is fair game! If you decide to dress up as a sexy Santa, that’s just a bonus.
Reindeer Games
Into a bit of pet play? Want to bring that into your kinky holiday? Instead of puppy or kitten play, go with reindeer games. You can “torture” Rudolph or punish other reindeer for being so mean to Rudy. Have your “reindeer” pull a sleigh or use a sexy crop or whip to get them moving.
Like the Bad Santa game, a lot of this is about power and control so fitting it into a dominance and submission role play may be easy. But the “reindeer” might decide to be naughty or bratty. At the same time, they may decide to be playful and work for “treats.” What kind of kinky reindeer games you role-play together should be based on the things you’re both into. Just remember to have fun with it!
The Elf Takes Over
We all know Santa is in charge around here. But if what an elf decides to take over and boss Santa around for a while? This is another great role-play option that can include a sexy costume if you want. One of you can be sexy Santa, and the other can be a sexy elf. No matter who’s who, the elf’s in charge.
This is a time to play with all your mutual kinks from dom and sub to bondage to spankings to whatever. Instead of a game of “Simon says” this might be “Jolly the Elf says.” As long as you both end up naked and having a good time together, it doesn’t matter what you do. Make sure to have a safe word or some kind of check-in in place so either partner can stop the fun if it gets to be too much.
Conclusion
No matter what kind of kinky games or role play you want to try with your partner, it’s important to talk about it before you play. Make sure your partner consents and is on board with your ideas. This only works if both of you are into it and have a good time. After that, don’t worry about what you’re “supposed” to do and have a kinky good time during the holidays!