5 Things to Know the First Time You Use a Pocket Pussy

Asking someone how to use a pocket pussy isn’t something that tends to come up in conversation. Admitting you have one in the first place isn’t something a lot of people do (although they should!). So if you’ve just ordered your first masturbation stroker, and you’re not sure what to do next, you probably have a few questions. Here’s what you need to know.

Add Plenty of Lube

If you’ve never used a pocket pussy — or any sex toy — before, this might surprise you. You’re going to need plenty of lube. Some companies automatically include lubricant in your package, but some don’t. If you don’t have any, now is the time to buy a bottle. Most pocket pussies need water-based lubricant. Don’t use any other kind unless the instructions say differently.

For those new to lube, it’s nearly impossible to use too much. Most first-timers think they’ve added a lot, and they still need more. Lube should make sliding your shaft into the pocket pussy easy without making you slide back out. If it’s difficult to squeeze yourself inside your stroker, add more lube. Don’t worry — water-based lube washes off very easily when you’re done.

You Should Feel a Squeeze

It’s possible to buy a pocket pussy that’s too big or too small. Your stroker shouldn’t have a stranglehold on your penis, but you shouldn’t fall out either. So yes, some squeeze or tight grip is to be expected. That’s part of the reason they’re so popular!

The inside of your pocket pussy should glide along your shaft. You shouldn’t feel like your penis is being tugged too hard, and there shouldn’t be any pain while you use your pocket pussy. This could indicate it’s too small. Likewise, if you don’t feel anyone and your dong scoots around with zero sensation, it may be too big.

You Can Do More with a Pocket Pussy

The most basic way to use your pocket pussy is to thrust your penis in and out or stroke it up and down your shaft. As a beginner, start there to figure out what feels good and what you like. But if this gets boring or you’re not feeling enough sensation, you can do more.

• Try twisting your wrist as you pump your stroker up and down. It should add sensation and friction.
• Remove your pocket pussy from the canister, if that’s an option. You can control the squeeze with your own grip if you use the sleeve only.

Take Your Time

The first time you use a pocket pussy, take your time. This isn’t a race, and it’s not your typical wank in the shower, either. Playing with your new sex toy is a time of exploration, discovery, and learning. You’ll never know what really feels good if you rub one out like you’re trying to start a fire.

Lie back, close your eyes, and focus on the sensations you feel inside your pocket pussy. Can you feel the texture in the sleeve? Do you need more lube? What feels good? What doesn’t feel good? Once you get an idea of what works and what you like, jack off at any speed you like, but slow down the first time.

Clean Up When You’re Done

No matter what it’s made of or what style you choose, your pocket pussy must be cleaned when you’re done. Get yourself off, take a quick nap, get a snack, and then clean your toy. If not, it could get crusty and gross or, worse, grow mold or bacteria which will ruin your pocket pussy.

If you hate the idea of cleaning it, consider wearing a condom while you jack off. You’ll still need to clean your pocket pussy out with soap and water, but it’ll be much easier to do. Depending on the material of your pocket pussy, you may also want to use powder to keep it pliable and soft over time.

Conclusion

Using a pocket pussy isn’t rocket science, but knowing a few tricks before you begin will help you have a much better experience. Always add lube and always be prepared to clean up when you’re done. But what you do in the middle is about what feels good to you and what you’re curious about. Take your time and let yourself experience nothing but pleasure. Once you find a pocket pussy that you love, you may never masturbate with your hand again.

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