6 Kinky Toys to Spice Up Your Bondage Fun
You’ve bought a bondage set and thought about how you want to be tied up (or how you want to tie up your partner). Maybe you added a blindfold to the mix to keep your partner on their toes. All of that makes for some definite kinky fun, but you both crave more. What can you do?
Consider of these six kinky sex toys to add more heat to your next bondage scene!
Note: All of the ideas and toys mentioned below require the consent of both partners. Never tie your partner up or use a kinky toy on them without a lot of communication and their full consent.
Nipple Clamps
While most often used on women’s breasts, nipple clamps know no gender. If the clamp can grab hold of the skin, they work for anyone who wants to try them. Adjustable clamps work on most nipples of any size because they adjust to your size. Alligator and tweezer clamps offer stronger sensations because they pinch more. All nipple clamps pinch the nipple in a painful sensation that you might grow used to. Just when you think you can handle the pain, they come off — and that’s when the sting really grows. They’re perfect if you want to play with pain and pleasure at the same time.
Cock Cages
If part of your kinky fun includes denying an orgasm or the ability to stroke themselves to a partner with a penis, a cock cage is what you need. Depending on the style you choose, the entire penis may be caged away or there may be openings so the skin can still be teased. Cock cages don’t prevent you from getting an erection, but they do make it so there’s nothing you can do about it. Cages are great for teasing, denial, torture, and/or control and power.
Paddles
Got a fantasy of being spanked like the naughty boy, girl, or person you are? Want to watch your partner’s butt turn bright red during a spanking? Paddles are great for this kind of impact play and can definitely add more fun to your bondage scene. Tie your partner face down on the bed and give their butt the paddling you both crave. Heavier paddles will create a different sensation than light ones so keep that in mind as you shop. If you want a sharp sting, choose a lighter paddle.
Ticklers
Not all kinky fun needs to include pain, but it can involve a different kind of torture — if you’re both into it. Now that you (or your partner) are bound to the bed and unable to move, why not try tickling them? With a feather or duster tickler, you can tease and torment them while they laugh helplessly. Because they’re tied to the bed, they can’t squirm away, either. The sensation you create isn’t a painful one, but your partner will definitely know who’s in control of the situation.
Chastity Belt
Cock cages can be chastity belts, but not all chastity belts are meant for penises. If you or your partner have a vulva, and you really want to tease them with orgasm denial, this is a toy to try. Imagine it: she’s strapped to the bed, unable to touch herself, a chastity belt covering her vulva. You stimulate her nipples, touch her thighs, and turn her on with words. Not only will she not orgasm, but she can’t be touched in the one spot she craves the most. Kinky!
Crops and Whips
Crops and whips do something that paddles rarely do — they create short bursts of stinging pain that are small. Just enough to feel but not so much that you can grow used to it. They allow for a lot of spanks and smacks over a small area in a short amount of time. Hit hard enough and often enough, and the skin can turn red. Add that to bondage fun, and your partner will beg. Whether they beg for more or beg for you to stop depends on how you both like to play.
Conclusion
Bondage is about control and power as are many parts of kink. Adding certain toys let’s you add more control but also plenty of sensation. Talk to your partner about what you’d like to experience and try and look for kinky toys designed to give you both what you crave. You’ll make your BDSM fun more exciting as you try new activities together!
