How to Add Sex Toys to Your Bondage Fun
Do you love tying up your partner and trying new kinky bondage tricks? Are you looking for a way to make the experience even better (and kinkier) for them and you? Whether you’re using rope, bondage tape, or bed restraints, tying up your partner is just the beginning. To add sensation and stimulation, add their favorite sex toy to overwhelm their senses and take their pleasure to new heights.
Here are a few ideas to get you started.
Anal Fun
The kind of butt stuff you try during your kinky bondage fun all depends on how experienced you are and what you enjoy. For some people, wearing a butt plug while they’re tied to the bed is all they need. Others want to feel anal beads moving in and out of their body. For those who want something more stimulating, a vibrator or prostate massager could hit the right spots. Others may want to try strap-on sex or pegging with a dildo and harness.
Your partner will either need to be tied up in a way that lifts their legs up or be in a position that places them on their side or stomach for anal play. Access is everything in finding the right spot for anal, but the position matters too. Some sexual positions are more comfortable for anal penetration than others.
Orgasm Control
Vibrators are great for orgasm control play. You might want to force the orgasm or simply tease your partner until they’re begging — for you to stop or to continue. You can also extend your bondage skills to include tying or taping a vibrator to your partner’s genitals. Either turn it up so high that the orgasms are ripped from them or keep it turned down so low that the vibrations are nothing but a big tease.
Other sex toys you can use in your orgasm control include chastity devices like cock cages. Some will completely enclose the penis. Others are made of bars so the skin can be teased a little in a sexy way. No matter which style you choose, the next step is to tease your partner until they’re rock hard. The torture is in wanting to touch themselves or get off but not being able to.
Overstimulation
Overstimulation comes in a variety of forms. For many people, it’s easily done by combining multiple actions:
- A vibrator on the clit and one against their g-spot
- Dildos and butt plugs inserted for double penetration
- Sex toys on genitals while hands wander over nipples
The entire point of the fun is to turn the heat up on your partner’s pleasure by hitting multiple hot spots at once. A vibrator against a clit while spanking their butt is one way. Oral sex while pinching nipples is another. The only limits are you and your partner’s personal boundaries and the sex toys you have in your collection.
Play with Pain
Pain isn’t for everyone, and you should never force or coerce your partner into trying it. But for those kinky folk who enjoy it, pain offers plenty of opportunities for pleasure — especially with the right sex toys.
- Use a vibrator to force orgasms until your partner begs for you to stop.
- Attach clamps to your partner’s nipples and pull on them while stroking their skin gently.
- Use toys like paddles, whips, crops, or floggers to spank your partner in a more intense way.
- Drip hot wax (using candles made specifically for kinky fun) on their skin.
- Put a glass dildo or butt plug in the refrigerator or in a bucket of ice until it’s really cold and then insert it in their body.
For some people, the pain turns to pleasure in a lot of ways. For others, they want to find out how much sensation they can endure. The right sex toy makes it better for them and easier for you.
Conclusion
Bondage can be so much more than restraining your partner. The key is to find sensations and stimulation that they enjoy or are willing to try and then incorporate that into your kinky fun. Always talk to your partner first and get their consent for anything you want to try. But don’t be afraid to experiment and try new things together, either. You never know what you’ll figure out about your mutual pleasure until you do.
