What to Add to Your Kinky Role Play to Make It Sexy AF

Kinky role play — pretending to be someone you’re not, in a situation that would never happen in reality — is hot for lots of people. Using your imagination and getting naked with a partner turns typical sex into a new experience completely. To take your next role play scene to a whole new level, add a bit of bondage gear or a sex toy or two to the fun. You might be surprised at how good your fantasies feel for both of you.

Costumes

If your kinky role play involves being someone else, a costume helps get you in the right mindset. Teacher/student, prisoner/guard, pirates — whatever your kinky imagination can come up with, there’s probably a costume to go with it. Depending on the role play fantasy, you can add a wig, shoes, and even make-up to help get into character and forget (for a moment) who you really are. For some people, that takes the pressure to “perform” off and helps them let go and enjoy the experience.

Sexy Lingerie

Your kinky fun might not work with a specific costume. Why not throw on sexy lingerie instead? Some men love to wear lacy panties as a kink. Stockings and heels are sexy for many partners. If it fits into the theme of your fantasy, great. If not, as long as you feel good wearing it, that’s all that matters. Wearing sexy lingerie can help you feel confident, especially once you see that lusty look in your partner’s eyes. And confidence helps you in role play when you worry you might look silly or sound weird.

Collar and Leash

Not everyone has a dominance and submission fantasy of a partner wearing a collar and using a leash, but some do. And to be fair, some people are really into pet play, but they’re on a budget. A collar and leash — either something sexy or something utilitarian — is an inexpensive way to get into the fun of a role play fantasy. One partner can lead the other around using the leash — whether in a sultry, sexy way, an erotic humiliation way, OR because both partners just love the idea of a leash.

Wrist and Ankle Cuffs

Wrist and ankle cuffs provide a lot of use in a kinky role play fantasy. When you want to “tie your partner up” but don’t have rope skills, cuffs let you clip your partner to straps. Maybe you want your partner to “feel helpless.” Attach them to the bed or chair and leave them there (as part of the fantasy, not for real). This is versatile bondage gear that works in lots of fantasies and with most non-rope bondage play.

Blindfold

Nothing makes a fantasy more real than giving up control of your sight. A blindfold is a simple way to add a kinky power dynamic to any role play. Maybe the pirate kidnapped the wench and left her in the dark. Maybe you want to imagine that multiple people are doing kinky things to you. Not being able to see can make many fantasies feel a lot more real. Plus a blindfold keeps your partner from knowing what sexy fun you’re planning next so there’s always an element of surprise.

Sex Toys

Sex toys make a great addition to any kinky role play fantasy. A threesome fantasy feels more real with a dildo or two. Dominance and submission can take interesting turns when you add vibrators for orgasm control, butt plugs for anal play, or paddles and crops for spanking fun. Whatever sexy fun you imagine in your fantasy, a sex toy adds an extra  layer of pleasure, kink, and anticipation. Use what you’ve got or heighten your mutual arousal by shopping together to plan your next role play adventure.

Conclusion

Do you absolutely need equipment, gear, or sex toys for your kinky fantasy? Not really. But do they make it more fun, exciting, orgasmic, and pleasurable? Heck yeah! When you and your partner fantasize about the sexy, kinky things you want to do together, don’t forget to enhance your mutual pleasure with a few items designed to make your experience better than you could possibly have imagined.