Why Anyone Can Use a Dildo
Sex toys can be used by anyone. They aren’t made for specific sexual preferences or gender identities. If it feels good against or in your body, then use it. Dildos are often thought of as a vaginal toy, but pegging enthusiasts who love using them during anal sex would definitely disagree with that assessment.
Get out of the same old way of thinking when it comes to sex toys. There’s no specific type of person they’re made for. Check out the different ways to use a dildo and learn why anyone — with any sexual desire — can enjoy one!
Give Your Penis a Break
Dildos are often considered the “replacement” if no penis is available for penetrative fun. But what if you’re tired or you’re struggling with erectile dysfunction? You want to have sex with your partner and give them sexual pleasure, but your penis isn’t exactly available. A dildo makes a great body double. You or your partner can “control” the dildo, and you can focus on touching, kissing, nibbling, and doing all kinds of other sexy things. Your penis gets the night off, but no one has to do without the kind of sex they enjoy most.
Not All Sex is Penis-in-Vagina
Not all sex is penetrative, but even when penetration is involved, it doesn’t always have to be a penis in a vagina (aka PIV sex). Anal sex is a thing, and anyone with a butt can try it. If your partner doesn’t have their own penis, they can buy one — in the form of a dildo. If butt sex is on your list of must-dos and must-tries, then choose the right penis for you so you can experience it anytime you want. No waiting for an available partner with a penis or going without a type of sex you can’t stop thinking about. Dildos to the rescue!
Oral Sex for Everyone
How can a dildo play a role in oral sex? Let us count the ways…
Practice deep-throating to get over your gag reflex. If you don’t want to gag on your partner, use a dildo to get used to the sensation. Surprise your penis-having partner by taking every inch of them. Or make it a kinky game and let them watch you practice with your dildo.
Play with kinky control games. If you fantasize about being on your knees for a partner, a dildo can add a lot of fun. Yes, even if you’ve never given head to a penis before. Maybe it’s about watching you gag and drool. Maybe your partner wants to see you do something new. And maybe they like the idea of watching you suck a dick, especially if you have one of your own and never imagined you would have one in your mouth.
Fulfill a need. In between partners? Love giving head? Use a dildo as a temporary replacement if you enjoy the sensation of something in your mouth. It’s no different than using any other sex toy to indulge in any other sexual fantasy.
Indulge in a Threesome Fantasy
Do you and your partner want to try a threesome? Does one of you struggle with the idea of bringing a third person into your sex life? Or have you tried to find a third partner only to be disappointed over and over again? If your threesome fantasy involves a penis, a dildo allows you to try your fantasy with a lot less risk.
Name your dildo. Treat it like a real partner. Indulge your fantasies or your partner’s without worrying about what it all means or how to act in the morning. Some fantasies aren’t meant to be happen in real life — for all kinds of reasons. When that happens, use a sex toy instead to get as close to the real thing as possible.
Conclusion
No matter who you are or how you like to get off, if your sexual fantasies involve dicks, a dildo gets the job done. And even if your fantasies don’t specifically involve penises or penetration, you may still find that they’re the perfect sex toy for whatever sexual fantasy you want to experience. Don’t think of dildos as something just for pegging or vaginal penetration. Anyone can use a dildo, and anyone who wants to should.
