Why You May Want to Buy a Small Dildo
When you think of penetration, what comes to mind? Is it a big thick dildo or penis filling you up and stretching you wide? Or do you imagine pushing your limits with anal sex? A lot of people think of size — length and girth — when they imagine penetrative sex. But size isn’t everything.
As popular as huge dildos can be, there’s a reason companies make smaller dildos, too. Before you think there’s no need to buy or use a thin or small dildo, consider these reasons.
New to Penetration
Penetrative sex comes in all types, flavors, and methods. You might be exploring strap-on sex for the first time with a partner. Maybe you’ve never experience penetrative sex but want to know what it feels like to put something in your vagina or anus. Or maybe it’s been a long, long time since the last time you were penetrated. A smaller dildo can ease your way into things, making it a more comfortable experience. It allows you to explore the sensation and experience with something a little less intimidating than the average dildo, too.
Painful Penetration
For some people, vaginal penetration is extremely painful. The pelvic muscles tighten and clench making getting anything the size of even a finger into their vagina nearly impossible. Dilators — very small, thin dildos — exist to help a person slowly become comfortable with penetration. Many people who use dilators start very small and work their way up to a larger size. They may never be able to handle more standard-sized dildos or penises, but smaller dildos give them the penetration they want — and can help treat medical conditions like vaginismus.
Trying Double Penetration
Double penetration (DP) can mean a variety of things. Some people consider a penis in the mouth and a penis in the vagina or anus to be double penetration. Others call it DP when one penis is in a vagina and the second is in the rectum. And it can also mean two penises in the vagina or two in the anus. However you define double penetration, if you want to try it for the first time with a single partner, a small dildo is usually the best place to begin. Your body may not be used to so many large objects and a thin or narrow toy can be a great first introduction.
Working on Your Gag Reflex
Dildos are great for “training” away a strong gag reflex. You can practice even when you have no partner around, whenever you feel like it. While you might imagine that starting with a dildo the same approximate size as your partner is a good idea, sometimes starting smaller is better. Mastering a smaller size without gagging can give you the confidence to gradually work up to larger sizes. Then you can surprise your partner with the blowjob of their life — without nearly vomiting all over them in the process.
Exploring Anal Sex
When you say “penetration” many people think of vaginal penetration. That’s not all it means. Anal sex or play doesn’t have to involve penetration but it can, and many people — of all genders and sexual identities — enjoy it. For newbies, a small butt plug, narrow anal beads, or small dildo are great ways to begin after you get used to your finger. Alternatively, some people don’t want to put their finger up their butt and would prefer to begin with a toy. You may start with a small dildo or work your way up to one, but in your anal exploration, dildos and other penetrative toys definitely have a place.
Conclusion
Dildos come in a variety of sizes, and they all have their uses. Even if you’re a complete size queen or king, you never know when the smaller options will be exactly what you need or want. There’s no one perfect size for any sex toy, including a dildo. There’s only the size that’s perfect for you and what you want to do with it. At Caliente Adult Superstore, we make it easy to find exactly what you need for the sex you crave.
